TracyK, in answer to your question. Why do I have to be a fan? I love and respect him as a PERSON. You can't be a fan of every person you've ever cared about or respected. It just wouldn't make sense. And on a side note: The fans are the ones who kept him awake at night screaming outside of his hotel window. They're the same ones who tackle, pull, and tug at him every waking second. And the same ones who invaded his privacy. Why would I want to be a part of that chaos? I love and respect the man, but at the end of the day I am no fanatic. But I do wish him well.
There's my legitimate answer.